A really nice and good question that makes you think! A lot.
Imagine this scenario: You’re a young blogger that opened his first blog because he found out one neighbour has a terrible success among their common friends with this kind of new “internet trend”. So, you open yourself a WordPress/Blogspot/whatever blog and start writting.
First of all, you write about you. Who are you, what do you want and so on. After that you ask yourself: what I am going to write about from now on? I’ll blog about me? About how early I got off this morning? Neah… better not, because in this way your girlfriend might become a subscriber and find out whenever you go out having fun, without her. And believe me, you don’t want this to happend.
The truth? Nobody cares so much about you, except you’re one of the 25 most important people that rule over the internet. Even so, not all of them manage to be a succesfull blogger. Take the example of the Sergey Brin, the founder of Google, that recently opened a blog. Who? Sergey Brin, the one that blamed out loud bloggers.
So… in this way, how are you going to engage/interact/connect with your readers?
The answer is by writing something good, unique and eventually, polemic. Don’t talk about the same subject everyone talks. Be a trend starter, not a trend follower and you’ll see that readers will come! From Google, from other bloggers that will surely read your blog if you stand up from the crowd.
Don’t missunderstand me: standing out from the crowd doesn’t mean argue with anyone that is not sharing the same thought as you. You will become a troll, not a succesful blogger.
Be patient! You won’t earn hundred of dollars over night or gain million of readers if you don’t have patience. It took almost three years for TechCrunch to gain 1087k readers via RSS and a lot of work, money, passion and patience.
Try to earn some confidence from other bloggers. Make them quote you! Make them invite you to contest they start. Make them your friends. Socializing it’s my favourite daily activities. I don’t see a potential threat in someone I don’t know. I usually see a potential friend.
I plan for the next month a meeting between me and other people that read me. I’d like to meet them and see what kind of people like whatever I write. I would like to see if my audience shares the same thoughts as I do. I’m also pretty sure it will be a great oportunity to get feedback from them. How much it will cost me? I’m confident it will be more cheaper than a contest with “review-me” tasks.
Finally, don’t forget to addopt a friendly atitutide with (almost) everyone. You want to be succesful, to interact with people, not fight or show them how “cocky” you can get. The Blogosphere is already filled with these kind of people, we don’t want more!
This is an entry for Blogsessive’s Group Writing Project & Contest. Supported by U Printing – Business Cards and Blog Design Studio.